Self Confidence

What is self confidence? It is a feeling of security. It is having trust in you. It is having a strong belief that you will accomplish what you set your mind to. It is expecting nothing but success. Confidence is the key that unlocks the door to opportunity and prosperity.

When you look in the world today you see some people who are bursting with this wonderful quality, they achieve success with fairly little effort while others struggle all their lives and still don’t amount to anything. Why is it that some people have confidence and others don’t? Do you think that Universe or God is unfair because some of us have this amazing quality and others wallow in self pity? Not at all.

The fact of the matter is that all of us have self confidence however a few people manage to develop and use it. It is within us hidden under the baggage of unnecessary thoughts and emotions that we carry around with us. Our feelings of fear and worry prevent it from coming to the surface.

If you only knew how powerful you really are, the unlimited possibilities within you, you will never doubt yourself, even for a second.

Confidence comes from knowing that your personality is just a tiny part of your real or higher self and as such you can make it what you want. You can make yourself over and develop any quality that you think is missing from your personality.

Your higher self never fear or doubt. It has unlimited strength. This is the real you. When you feel insecure, think about the real you and let the “I am” within you manifest itself through your personality . If you are not familiar with this concept then read my previous articles. In short your personality is your out ward appearance, if you are closer to the wants of your personality only then you will feel fearful or worried and you will lack confidence because then you depend on circumstances and people for your happiness. On the other hand if you get close to your immortal higher self you understand that it is up to you only to create the life that you want. You have all the power. This thought gives you tremendous self confidence. To get close to your real self you just have to believe that it is there and you will feel its presence.

Always know that you are a powerful being. Remember the power of your thoughts . Every thing in your life is an effect and the cause is your thought. When you think that you can do something and put your best effort forward then you will be able to do it. Don’t be uncertain about your abilities and don’t say that you will try. As someone said “trying is failing with honors”. Always say “I can and I will”.

Know that you are not alone in your efforts. When you are doing all that you could with the mental attitude of success not only you have assistance of your higher self but also the Universe helps you, open doors for you and makes your path easier. You receive help from unexpected sources. You attract to your self people, things and situations that assist you in your journey towards your goal.

Fear is your worst enemy. It paralyzes your efforts. It prevents you from reaching your true potential and what are you afraid from anyway? You have it in you what it takes to overcome any obstacle. Remember NOTHING is out of your reach. Every thing is possible when you have the right thinking and invincible determination.

There was a time when people thought that if God wanted us to fly then he would have given us wings. But someone challenged this belief and invented airplane. To be exact, Montgolfier flew the very first Hot Air Balloon which carried two men in 1783 and in 1903 Wright brothers flew the first motorized airplane (a bit of general knowledge). These inventors believed that they could do it and they done it. They had confidence in themselves. Every invention that you see today first existed in someone’s thoughts. In the words of Prentice Mulford who was one of the founders of metaphysics, “thoughts Are things”.

You can create the life that you want by thinking right. With this realization comes confidence. When you stop blaming others for the situations in your life and understand that you are the sole architect of your life, you feel a strong rush of power . When you live consciously and take complete responsibility for your life you become extremely confident because then you don’t depend on other people for your success. You realize that the power to attract success is within you likewise the barriers to success are also within you. These are your limiting beliefs and your negative thoughts, ofcourse these are subject to your control.

Confidense comes from knowing that nothing and no one can ever prevent you from receiving what is yours. So stop worring about that someone else will get the job that you want or someone else will get things that you desire. If you don’t get what you want then it means that something better is on its way. The only thing that can block the way to your success is your own negative way of thinking. For example if you have thoughts of hatred, malice or suspicion, you will find yourself in situations where these thoughts will manifest in to reality. If you have thoughts of love and kindness you will have circumstances in accordance with your thoughts. You will meet people who have similar thought patterns. It doesn’t matter what your thoughts are or whether they serve you or not, or whether they are good or not. Thoughts are like gravity in the sense that they don’t pass judgement, they just do their thing. Whatever you send out in the world you ALWAYS get it back with interest.

When you control your thoughts , you control your life. When you are in control of your life you become confident. Remember confidence doesn’t mean feeling superior or better then others. It is believing in your own abilities, it is trusting your higher self for guidance. It is knowing that the Universe is always working with you and co-creating your realities. It is a strong expectation of success in whatever you do.

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