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Seeing Good

To see good in everything should not be a forced effort but a natural state of being.When I first started this journey of self awareness I watched my thoughts closely to not to see any negativity in situations and people. I was too hard on myself if I let my thoughts slip a bit and felt guilty if I did (later I discovered that guilt serves no purpose but strays you from the path of your heart). I went out of my way to be helpful to others at the expense of my own freedom and joy. To be honest I wasn’t very happy doing that. I was nicer to everyone then I was to myself. And then I wondered why I was feeling so glum instead of happy. It was because what I was doing was pretending to be something I wasn’t and when I helped others it was because I wanted the law of attraction to bring me what I desire. Of course this isn’t how this law works actually it isn’t about how to get it to work for you because it is always working; your world is your very own creation. When you realize that all things are working for you and that there isn’t a moment in your life that doesn’t teaches you something about yourself, you automatically see goodness in all and of course the meaning that you give to every situation shapes your reality.

We are responsible for how our life is whether we think it is good or otherwise. The moment you take the responsibility of what you have attracted to your life is the very same moment that you can began to create differently if you don’t prefer it. If all is well and you are excited about every aspect of your reality then it means you are spiritually enlightened. There are many people in this world who don’t consider themselves to be spiritual or who have never even heard of law of attraction but they are happy and fulfilled this is because they have their thoughts and emotions in alignment with their higher self. They genuinely see good in themselves, in others and in situations. They are the most enlightened people of all whether they are aware of it or not.

Freedom

You are the creator and also the creation. What I learned and am learning every day is that I have to follow no one but my own self. I have to listen to what my heart tells me, I have to do what I want to do and not what others think I should do. When I respect myself and love myself that is when my world changes for the better. I have noticed that when I give myself freedom to follow my joy that is when I also respect the hopes and dreams of people around me.

If I want to do something for another it is not because I want to be rewarded for it by the universe it is because that is what I want to do at that moment, maybe because it makes me feel good so in a way I do it for myself, that is why I don’t consider it a debt that has to be repaid. I don’t owe anyone and nobody owes anything to me. This realization gives me a feeling of sheer joy and freedom.

Sacrifice is Unnecessary

I don’t sacrifice my time or resources for anyone because to be honest with you I think sacrifice is overrated. When you sacrifice for another in most cases sooner or later you will resent that person if he/she doesn’t do the same for you. Do help others if you can without putting unnecessary burden on yourself and also when it gives you joy. Don’t forget that before you think about loving another you have to love yourself unconditionally.

Unnesessary burdens drain energy. For myself I choose to help someone only when it is about something that I enjoy doing. I do it not because I feel obligated to do it or because I want something in return, I only do it for the fun of it. In this way it becomes a win - win situation for both of us.

Don’t feel guilty if your decisions about your life are disapproved by people around you. If you are sincere with yourself they will come around and even respect you for having a mind of your own. Whatever transactions or relations you have for another should be beneficial for the both of you. In other words it should be a win win situation for all parties involved.

Be Yourself!

When you feel good about you that is when you attract all that is good. Don’t pretend to be something you are not. Be yourself, follow your heart and don’t be afraid to do so.

I used to think that how I can live this way there are so many barriers or I can’t do this he/she wont let me. Now I know that I am as free to make my own decisions as I let myself to be. I act on my joy without fear and I see that barriers are just illusions, they look real but they are not. Each moment of my each day I realize this more and more.