How to Find Love

Wednesday, May 20, 2009

We often hear statements like, “true love is hard to find” or “it only happens once in a life time”. Truth is whatever it is that you believe about anything becomes your reality. If you think that it is difficult to find love then it becomes so. As a matter of fact with the right mental attitude you don’t need to find it but it will find you.

Recognize your Higher Self

You probably know about law of attraction . This law brings to you whatever it is that you truly desire. Know what you want and it will manifest in your life but it doesn’t always work the way we like it to. Problem is not in the law but in us, law of attraction always works according to specific principles.

Often people make a list of qualities they want in their future partners but only a few of them are able to attract an ideal relationship. The thing is if you desire a certain quality in your partner; make sure that you have it in yourself also. Like attract like in the thought world. It is not what you want that matters but who you are. The more you get to know your higher self , the part of you that is connected to infinite love, wisdom and joy; more happiness and abundance will be manifested in your life.

Overcoming Loneliness

Whenever you feel lonely go out doors for a walk and while walking dwell in the thought of love. Don’t think about whom you love or the various forms through which love manifests itself but focus your attention on love that is within you. Know that there is a power all around you and in you. It is the source of all creation. This universal energy or my preferred term God, loves you unconditionally.

You are always at one with the intelligence and power of the great whole. All you have to do is to recognize its presence and it will be your best friend, ever present to guide and provide for you. Wherever you go and whatever it is that you are doing realize that you are being loved. You were created so that God can express life and joy through you. When you find love within, you will also manifest it without.

Spiritual Symbol

When you desire something, meditate on its spiritual symbol. Spiritual symbol of a thing is the source of its inherent movement. It is the reason why something came into existence. So if you want an ideal relationship then meditate on love. Don’t think about any particular person because love will manifest itself through the person most suitable for you.

When you form a spiritual symbol of your desire, you have planted a seed in the unseen so to speak. Nothing can prevent it from growing and appearing on the visible frame except your own self. This can happen if you plant a seed of opposite nature which will stop the first one from growing. When you think thoughts of doubt, jealousy, and anger etc you are only postponing the manifestation of what you desire and if you can’t control such negative thoughts you might even stop all the good that is coming your way.

Overcoming Negative Thoughts

Feelings of fear, discouragement, disbelief and anxiety cause the fulfillment of your desire to move further and further away from you. These kinds of thoughts have harmful effects on your mind and body and weaken your ability to attract what you want.

Negative thoughts always attract conditions of their own kind. When such feelings overcome you take deep breaths and say to yourself, “I am always connected to the whole, all life that exists and it is always working for my advancement”. Replace any negative thought with these words and soon you will free yourself from it. Be alert when you make this affirmation.

If negative thinking is an old habit of yours, go where you can be alone and meditate on the affirmation. Don’t be impatient with yourself if you don’t succeed in your every try. It is the intention that counts and not your absolute success in your attempts. The all knowing power understands and rewards your efforts. Be diligent and persistence and you will eventually succeed.

Overcoming Negative Conditions

When you understand that every circumstance or thing has its root in your habitual thought you can overcome any difficult situation because you can control your thoughts. When you realize your divine nature you are able to draw to yourself ways of meeting any problem that you may have and overcome adverse conditions.

Learn to do your own thinking and have courage to make your own decisions. When you learn to entertain positive and harmonious thoughts adverse circumstances will be replaced by conditions reflecting your changed mentality.

Be joyful, calm and confident in your expectation as if you already have what you desire. Be patient and don’t try to force things. By the law of growth your present circumstances will grow in to new more desirable ones. Don’t forget that conditions grow in to the correlative shape of your predominate mental attitude.

Visualize

Visualization is an extremely efficient way to attain your desires. It is preferable that you are alone and undisturbed when you do it. You can visualize whenever you have time however early morning and before you go to sleep at night are the best times to do it.

To attract love in your life imagine yourself with a friend not someone you know but your ideal person. Picture the two of you having a wonderful time together on the activities that you enjoy like walking on a beautiful beach or having lunch in your favourite restaurant. Keep that picture in mind until you feel a deep sense of joy, love and companionship. If you visualize regularly, this feeling will register in your subjective mind and you will be able to recall it at will. Once this happens your subjective mind or higher self will transfer this feeling to the Universal subjective mind and your ideals will begin to manifest themselves in form.

How long will it take to manifest what you want?

It depends on how long it takes you to purify and cleanse your mind of all the unnecessary clutter of negative thoughts and how much faith you have in the power that brought you into existence.

When you plant the seed of your desire in the universal mind don’t think thoughts that are opposite in nature of what you want. For instance if you want a loving companionship then don’t wonder about the reasons why it could not happen.

Give it at least six months and be absolutely sure that what you desire is on its way.

There is no hard and fast rule to determine when your desire will manifest on the physical plane. I said six months because it takes time for the seed of your desire that you have planted in the spiritual realm to take root and appear in physical form. Also it takes time for a person to de-junk his mind from the thoughts of doubt and worry. When your emotional vibrations are in tune with what you want that is when it manifests in your life. Be happy, be hopeful and ALWAYS believe.

Be You

Don’t depend on a relationship or anything else for that matter for your happiness . Be you and learn to enjoy your own company. Don’t wait for such and such thing to happen so that you can be happy. Be happy now.

Restful Expectation

Conditions are the result of state of consciousness. Whatever you want, all that you need already exists in the realm of the absolute or spiritual world. In order to manifest it on the plane of the relative or physical world you have to believe that it already exists. You have to take possession of it mentally. It will not always reach you the way you expect it to but it always finds a way through the most appropriate channel.

As I said before, never try to force a situation. Let the law of growth take its course and it will certainly result in corresponding physical form of your desire. Have no doubt about it. Be restful in your expectation. Find your inner peace and joy and everything else will be added to it.

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Huh?  So this article is about spawning hot chicks with your mind?
Neat!

Interesting !  " Recognize your Higher Self "

WHO is to recognise the Higher Self ! ?

in case, the Higher Self is termed as GOD,
mostly because GOD is GREAT.........,
isn'...