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Question: Hello again, Sabeen. I have another question for you. Is it possible that when working on issues within oneself that the issues and their outward manifestation gets worse before it gets better? I have been reading and studying ho'oponpono and when I 'clean' as he calls it, on a certain problem it gets much, much worse to the point where I think this is never going to work and I want to give up! Is this normal? Many thanks and many blessings.

First Name: Del

Country: United Kingdom



Hello Del,

Yes it is quite normal when you are clearing inner blocks. As you release resistance you may feel overwhelmed, I call it the withdrawal symptom. I haven’t done ho'oponpono but I did EFT (emotional freedom technique), some of which was based on ho'oponpono so I can relate to what you are going through.

It is possible that as you are working on a problem other issues that may or may not be connected to that problem come up on surface so that you can dissolve them. You never really solve a problem but rather you dissolve it or transmute it in to something that adds to your well being. Every obstacle is a gift in disguise that will make your life better in some way. This is my experience also.

A shift in beliefs is reflected in a shift in physical reality. When you change your limiting beliefs and your reality doesn’t change then don’t think that you are doing something wrong. As your new beliefs take root and replace the old ones the outside reality may change, sometimes very quickly but if you see the same scenario manifesting then the difference that lets you know that there is a difference is that you react differently.

When you feel and react differently to same situations these situations transmute themselves to align with the new you.

If the physical manifestations seem to be getting worse then this is also normal in fact it is the very first stage of inner detoxification. This only means that you are right on track and clearing up a lot of blockages. And your physical reality will bring to your attention some more issues that you may want to resolve.

We reach higher levels of awareness usually through contrast that appears in life. So a challenge in fact is a blessing that is expanding you to become more of who you are. Be at peace with it. Don’t give up on ho'oponpono and keep moving forward, you are doing incredibly well!


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