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I am good to people but they are not always good to me. I make friends but they leave me. My relationship with others always disappoint me. When I treat people with so much affection why they do not treat me in the same way?

Asked by Dinu from India

Dear Dinu,

When you need others to feel good about yourself, you send out a vibe of neediness that repels people from you. You must learn that true happiness and well being comes from within. You are always being loved unconditionally and taken care of by your larger non physical self. Believe thoroughly in your greater interior self that is a part of that amazing energy which people refer to as God.

You must know that there is something within you that is greater then any problem or situation that you can possibly meet and as such you are never really alone. When you realize this you feel such a sense of inner peace and security that is indescribable in words. You then have a cheerful attitude that is natural and not a show for the benefit of others. You are happy because you can’t help being so.

You can then always feel this happiness whether you are with people or not. When you understand that you don’t really need others to feel good, when you learn to enjoy your own company then you will attract true friends and sincere relationships to your life.

Always remember people in your life are not responsible to give you joy but they are there to share your joy.

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