Question About Soulmate

Well by the way I'm Desiree' I’m 23 years old woman. I know dreams mean something I have a dream almost every night. I'm kind of in this situation it involves my ex girlfriend her name is Saraha. we've been broken up for a little over a year now I miss my ex not even for her to get back with me but like has a person last time I spoke with her she told me to act like she dead it crush me it did this woman I felt so connected to like I had to know her get to know her so intriguing she would make me feel like I'm on clouds so happy to have her I seen literally no one else in my future but her..man when it came to music we connected on a level out of this world we had a problem though distance. I live in northern CA she lives in southern CA and now she has a woman I have someone who cares but I feel I struggle with her I don't know how to feel I wish we could at least be friends when I think of not speaking to her long as I live I get so sad you also said you would speak to me about soul mates? I’m very interested I feel like I need help just someone to really help me through this I know its unhealthy I will be waiting to hear from you soon. Love & God bless.

First Name: Desiree

Country: United States

Dear Desiree,

You have deep feelings for your ex because you have strong interactions with her in other lives. I didn’t say past or future lives because as a higher understanding of quantum physics will tell you all of your lives are happening simultaneously. It is hard for human mind to grasp this because we are so used to the idea of time being linear. We think of our life as going from past, to present to future when in reality all that we have is the moment we are in now. It is not necessary at this point for you to go in detail of this concept the important thing for you to remember is that though it may seem to you that your ex and you are not together anymore but know that you are on many levels.

The idea is to remember that it is not the first or last time that you have a relationship with this person so there is no point in grieving for a lost relationship because it is not lost. You needed to go through this experience as a part of an agreement made on a higher level of consciousness. If you cling to it negatively that is with feelings of sadness or frustration you hinder your evolvement which is the whole point of this experience that is for you to advance and become more of yourself.

You can only become more of your true self when you learn that you are a joyful being on your own, other people come in your life only to reflect more clearly what you already feel about yourself. Until you realize that you are a whole person and don’t need another to make you feel complete you will attract similar situations to your life. Let’s look at some questions regarding soul mates and you will have a better understanding of what we have discussed.

What is a soul mate?

A soul mate is a person that comes in to your life when he/she needs to come in to reflect to you the things that need to be reflected to you, to give you the best opportunity to be more of yourself but also along the way so do other individuals.

Do I have only one soul mate?

You have more then one soul mates and though your interaction with them is deep and fulfilling, it is also difficult at times. It doesn’t have to be but sometimes you make it so by putting them on a pedestal and defining the relationship as something that is the only reason for your happiness. When you gain clarity about who you really are you begin to enjoy your relationships and think of life as an exciting adventure.

How can I find my soul mate?

Start by not trying to find him/her. Continue to be the person that you need to be that your soul mate has made an agreement to be with. That doesn’t mean that you have to be utter perfection. It just means that if you have not manifested or lost that person there is a reason but the most important thing for you to do is to redefine your label and definition of soul mate. From a spiritual point of view anybody you are interacting with at any given moment is your soul mate because that is who is there.

Many a times individuals who have made an agreement with someone to come in their life and be their life partner will actually keep that person away by invalidating who they are interacting with right now. Every person that comes in your life is a stepping stone so if you invalidate a stepping stone you can’t take the next step. Interact who you are interacting with as if they are at that moment your soul mate because they are there to reflect something back to you so you become an expanded version of yourself; you must relax. The paradox is the less you need to find or be with your soul mate the quicker you will attract her/him to your life.

When you say that you need to be with that person is saying that you are not complete. If you say that you are incomplete you attract incompleteness. Completeness doesn’t mean that you should be perfect in every way. It means that at whatever point you are, you are complete at that moment. It doesn’t mean you will not advance and grow but you are at any give moment an absolutely perfect and complete version of that you. Feel complete without needing anyone else to make you feel this way. When you give unconditional love to yourself that you deserve and don’t really need anyone else to do that, paradoxically that is when you attract to your life someone who reflects that love back to you.

Hope this helps, if you have more questions feel free to contact me.

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