Relationship Questions/Answers
Dear Gratitude, I love my wife dearly... I couldnt live without her. But I have tendencies to flirt with ladies elder to me. What do I do? I feel I am cheating? Asked by confused from India Dear Confused, No matter how much you love your wife but if you are flirting with other women you are not showing much respect for her. Why are you wasting your time and energy on women who are of no importance to you and who are in your life on temporary basis. Instead pay more attention to your wife who will be with you for the rest of your life. You may think what you are doing is harmless but it is not and could lead to something serious which could be very harmful to your marriage. The most hurtful thing for any wife is, when she sees or hears about her husband flirting or spending time with other women. I am sure you will not want your wife to go through such emotional pain. You have a loving marriage; you are a very lucky man to have this. Be grateful for your blessings. By paying unnecessary attention to women other then your wife, you are only creating negative karma. Remember what goes around comes around.
I have been married for last 4years.First 2yrs my husband treated me as princess but nowadays he doesn't have time for me at all.Is it work pressure? OR SOMETHING ELSE? Asked by jassi from India Dear Jassi, Don’t worry too much about it. It looks like the honey moon phase of your marriage is over. It is common in all marriages. It is also possible that he is tied up at work. Another reason could be that your husband is tired of being the one who always have to pamper you and wants you to show him love and attention for a change. So why not you make him a surprise candle light dinner and let him know how much he means to you and how grateful you are that he is in your life. If you want your marriage to be happy and exciting then you and your husband both have to work on it. Don’t always expect him to be the one to treat you like a princess, sometimes you have to return the favor too! I have fallen for a lady 8yrs elder,we both r married.we've never met talk on phone & share everything.i miss her if v dont chat.what is this,should i continue? she says she feels for me, i make her happy and she likes my advice. and i feel for her too. should i continue and if not how to forget her???? Asked by vickychd from India Dear Vickychd, It looks like a classic case of infatuation to me. These feelings you are having are temporary and wouldn’t last. You are only thinking about her a lot because it is something new and exciting in your life. Kind of like a forbidden fruit, you are married and she is married. The cruel world will not let you two come together it is “kabhi alvida na kehna” (a bollywood movie) all over again. Every body wants a piece of forbidden fruit at some point in their lives but remember where Adam and Eve ended up. You are infatuated with her because the “idea” of her is exciting and you now feel like you have a lot in common with her. She understands you right! But mark my words if this woman comes into your life permanently and you have to be with her all the time, you will be bored with her in no time. The more serious issue here is that you are looking for some excitement in your life and you should have it, after all we only live once. My advice is having an affair. You heard me right have an “affair” with your “wife”. Think of her as your new girlfriend. Buy her something pretty and take her out to a nice romantic dinner. Go away for a week end together if you could manage it. Treat her just as you will treat your girl friend. I have a friend and she is happily married for more then fifteen years, when ever things get a little routine she and her husband hire a baby sitter for their kids and have quality alone time together. However for our date night my husband and I prefer to cook dinner together and then rent a nice DVD. It is up to you, how you want to spend quality time with your wife, the point is that you do. It keeps things fresh and exciting. Try it and you will be pleasantly surprised with your wife’s response.
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